You can’t let a woman control you,
HOWEVER… you also can’t try and control her.
Although men throughout history have tried (and some cultures are still trying) you just can not control a woman.
You can’t make her like you.
You can’t force her to respect you.
And you can’t 100% guarantee that she won’t cheat on you.
You will never stop her from doing what she wants to do and seeing who she wants to see.
So why are you even trying?
Why are you yelling?
Why are you having a logical discussion about whether it’s disrespectful that’s she’s going to VEGAS with her girlfriends without you.
Why are you losing your cool?
Again, you cannot control HER.
So what’s the good news –
Well, you really only have one card but it’s a very powerful one.
It’s the willingness to (calmly) walk away.
If she is doing things that you don’t like, you have the option to say to yourself “this is not for me” “this is not good enough” and calmly walk away.
Now, the KEY is to have her understand that you are willing walk away, BEFORE you get to the BIG disagreements down the line.
If she likes you, she should be so worried about lowering your interest that she wouldn’t dream of hanging out with another guy or flirting with her ex-boyfriend on Facebook right in front of you.
This is why it’s so important to set your boundaries at the very beginning of the relationship. To show her that you can and will (calmly) walk away when you first start dating.
Remember, you can never control another person. But you can always walk away from a situation that you don’t like.
The sooner she knows THIS about you, the better off you will be.
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