Most men, can get a date.
And most guys, do the right things ON a date.
They can carry a conversation, make her laugh and do just enough to make her want to see him again.
However, after coaching men for over 20 years, I’ve realized that most guys have ZERO clue about what to do between dates.
And this realization has lead me to a shocking truth:
GUYS DON’T LOSE THE GIRL BECAUSE OF THE MISTAKES THEY MADE “ON THE DATE“
THEY LOSE THE GIRL BECAUSE OF THE MISTAKES THEY MAKE “BETWEEN DATES“
The Numbers Don’t Lie
Most of your time with a girl is the time spent “between dates”.
Think about it –
Say you spend 5 hours a week on a date, but there are also the 150 hours between dates. So, getting the next date really comes down to what you do during those 150 hours.
And over a 10 week period (the time it takes for her to fall for you) you spend around 50 total hours dating her
AND SO THAT MEANS YOU SPEND 1,500 HOURS AWAY FROM HER
THAT’S 50 Hours with her VS. 1500 Hours away from her (a 30 to 1 Ratio)
So, making a woman fall in love really comes down to how you CONTROL YOURSELF during those 1500 hours between dates.
Blowing It “Between Dates” Throughout History
Back in the day, most guys would “blow it” between dates by calling too soon.
Our hero would score her digits and immediately phone her that same day!
Or, right after the first date he would call and leave a message on her machine asking her out again.
And if she didn’t call back in an hour, you can bet Mr. Clueless would keep leaving more messages until she finally picked up and screamed: DON’T EVER CALL ME AGAIN!
In other words, this COOL guy, who was PERFECT on the date, completely blew his chance because of what he did between dates.
Guys from that time period who were successful, knew that the secret was to resist the urge call girls between dates. The only exception being when you phoned to ask her out on the next one.
This “no phone calls between dates” strategy made you comes across as a challenge and kept her guessing.
“I wonder if he’s going to call?”
But most importantly, it made you seem DIFFERENT than every other guy from that era.
And the best part was, not calling her between dates was so easy, even a caveman could do it!
All you needed was the self-control to not to pick up your cordless phone and the patience to wait a few days.
Welcome To The “Smart Phone” Era
But today we live a completely different world.
A world where everyone you know uses a smart phone (even grandma!)
A world where you can contact anyone you want 24-7 through text messaging and social media.
If you thought resisting the urge to contact a girl between dates was hard in the past…
It’s become damn near impossible today!
The fact is it takes less than a second to lose all your self-control and fire off some stupid message you just know you’re going to regret.
Ever sent a woman you like the dreaded…
Hey, what’s up?
Or hit the LIKE button on her latest “story” showing that she had salad for lunch.
As such, the odds of blowing it with your dream girl “between dates” is higher today than at any point in human history.
Heck, it’s become a straight up epidemic. A national crisis.
Somebody alert the president!
The BIG Opportunity
But despite all of the additional challenges we face today, there is some good news. Really good news.
If the time “between dates” is where most mistakes are made –
That also means there’s a BIG opportunity.
Because if you can control yourself and master the proper use of the smart phone – you will stand out from all of the other guys that are constantly turning her off.
You will score a lot of points and raise her interest much quicker.
And you will make her fall in love forever.
Let’s get started!