The #1 feeling (the positive or negative challenge)
What’s exciting about the #1 feeling is the thrill of the chase. The reward of working hard for something, Putting in the effort. Taking on the challenge. Winning a guy over. Getting someone that she feels is slightly above her, This is the wild roller coaster ride at the amusement park.
Note: this feeling can come in the form of a positive or negative challenge
The #2 feeling (nice guy, wimp) gives her a different type of excitement.
Note: the nice guy #2 feeling guy is just as good looking as the bad boy and makes more money. He’s no schlep.
She’s excited about being in charge. There’s less risk of being hurt or rejected (unlike her last bad-boy boyfriend). This is the “safe” ride at the amusement park.
She’s excited that a guy like this will go along with her agenda (marriage, kids, house) She’s excited about controlling things, Shes excited about being able to”fix’ you.
She likes being put on a pedestal and all the compliments. You’ll entertain her bad moods and play psychologist. You’ll buy gifts and do her favors. She knows you will message her anytime she needs attention.
She’ll be able to cancel plans and break dates and not lose you. She’ll be able to talk with her bad boy ex-boyfriend and you won;’t say anything, She will win 99% of the disagreements.
